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Setting Boundaries is Not a Sin
After a year of stepping back, I've learned that boundaries aren’t walls. They're about protecting your peace and choosing yourself.
Ruan Coetzee
Oct 9, 20243 min read


A Quick Thought
I'm in a weird place.
Ruan Coetzee
Apr 8, 20241 min read


A Letter to My 7-Year-Old Self
I was seven years old when I knew that I was different.
Ruan Coetzee
Aug 31, 20235 min read


A thin-skinned litigation lawyer
Thoughts about self-doubt in a career in law, and how I found my balance.
Ruan Coetzee
Mar 17, 20233 min read
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